How and Why Pornography Hurts Marriage

A new article at the Harvest USA website on pornography and marriage.

Need freedom from darkness? Step into the light…, by Rev. David White

There was a time when interpersonal confession was a central part of the Christian faith. Confessing to your priest continues to be an important aspect in Roman Catholicism. Sadly, in most quarters of Protestantism, the centrality of formal confession has been jettisoned, replaced with a “just between me and Jesus” approach. Now, I understand the Protestant reaction against the distortions in Catholicism. Because we have a Great High Priest who lives forever interceding for his people, we no longer need a human mediator. Indeed, there is only “one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus” (1 Timothy 2:5). A human priest cannot offer absolution for sins and assessing our sins with forms of penance flies in the face Christ’s finished work on the cross as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. But as we approach the 500th anniversary of the birth of the Reformation, I suggest that the pendulum has swung too far in the opposite direction. Realizing that we no longer need the institutional church to approach God, much of 21st century American Evangelicalism has lost perspective on the corporate reality of our faith, particularly true in the case of confession.

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Sermons from the Urban Ministry Conference, March 7, 2010

If you didn't get a chance to hear the sermons which concluded Tenth's Urban Ministry Conference or you want to listen again:

So You Want to Be Pure, Dr. Paul D. Tripp

Sex and the Allegiance of Your Heart, Rev. David White

What should I do if my husband or wife is caught in a pattern of sexual sin? by David White

There is probably nothing more painful in marriage than the revelation of your spouse’s sexual sin. It’s like having your heart ripped out and thrown into oncoming traffic. You are confronted with a life and relationship that was, in many respects, a mirage. You suddenly realize you’re married to someone you don’t really know. It is no surprise that when spouses are confronted with sexual sin in marriage, they often respond with symptoms akin to Posttraumatic Stress Disorder! The house of cards has tumbled down. The life you thought you had was a lie. It is a brutal place to be.

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The Mortification of Sin, by Dr. Philip G. Ryken

This past Sunday (2/28) Dr. Ryken preached a sermon on the mortification of sin from Romans 8:12-13.  It seemed pertinent to our discussion on this blog, so we have posted an excerpt below.  You can access the text of the entire sermon here or the audio and video here.

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A Level Playing Field, by Dr. Paul D. Tripp

One the most comforting things about the biblical diagnostic; sin and the Gospel cure; the cross of Jesus Christ, is that together they level the playing field.  We are all diagnosed with the very same spiritual disease and we are find hope in the very same cure.  Because of this, none of us can look at another as being more of a sinner than we are and none of can pride ourselves in having a cure that won’t work for another.  Permit me to explain.

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What does the Bible say about homosexuality? by David White

When it comes to emotionally charged issues in our culture, homosexuality may top the list. So the first thing we need to acknowledge is our temptation to approach this issue driven by our feelings, experiences and sociology rather than through careful biblical reflection. If we don’t personally experience same-sex attraction (though countless brothers and sisters in the Church do), nearly all of us have close friends, family members, neighbors, co-workers, etc. in the gay life. These relationships profoundly impact how we respond to this issue – we’ve heard their stories and empathize with their pain.

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